The Stepmoms' Club: How to Be a Stepmom without Losing Your Money Your Mind and Your Marriage review ß 108

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The Stepmoms' Club: How to Be a Stepmom without Losing Your Money, Your Mind, and Your Marriage review ß 108 ¶ ❮PDF❯ ✭ The Stepmoms' Club: How to Be a Stepmom without Losing Your Money, Your Mind, and Your Marriage ✩ Author Join or create book clThe tips tricks and support you need Club How PDF #8608 to survive stepmotherhood ― the perfect gift for every stepmom aroundYou've met the partner of your dreams and have gotten your happily ever after but now you've taken on a new role stepmom And you have no idea what you signed up for Or maybe you've been a stepmom for a while now The Stepmoms' Epubbut things are getting you down Who do you turn to for help Where is the stepmothering support group that'll give you the advice you need A book for all the ins and outs of having a blended family Who actually gets how hard being a stepmom can beWe do We are the women who have chosen stepmotherhood and lived to Stepmoms' Club How Kindle #211 tell the tale This parenting guide holds our solutions to help you Brave the crazy ex demandsOvercome the financial hurdles of a blended familyBe prepared for the legal battles and custody arrangementsHandle disrespectful childrenNourish your relationshipManuever the emotional breakdowns of stepmotherhoodBuild your own stepmom's clubUnderstand why you need your partner to have your backWritten by stepmoms for stepmoms these tips anecdotes Stepmoms' Club How to Be Kindle and words of advice will help you find success and support within your new familyWe are the St. I discovered this book six years into being a step mom How I wish I had read it first although I may not be here had I known what I was getting into Seriously though this book is spot on about the role of being a step mother I know there are some bad reviews mostly from bio moms as they're referred to in the book who see the accurate descriptions of the blended family warts and all as negative and mean spirited Clearly none of them has ever played the role of step mother The job's not all bad but it's a difficult often thankless role You do everything for the kids a mother does and yet if they like you and that's a big if your mothering will largely go unnoticed as you watch the kids clamor after Mom time and again The authors remind you that the mom always wins with the kids so don't even go there She will pull rank every time and enjoy the financial rewards of her position in terms of child support and money for all the extras as a given It's very hard to watch thousands being piped from your bank account into hers year after year but as the authors remind you it's one of the evils that comes with the territory so you might as well accept it Some bio moms are worse than others of course purposely playing havoc with the schedule and manipulating the kids If she resents your existence on any level she will likely convey that to the kids which may result in one or of them rejecting you and making your life hell Like the new step moms described in the book I approached my new role with enthusiasm freely giving of my time attention and resources and being very civil to all involved in an effort to heal the rift of the family split and forge a new happy blended family In time those hopes get dashed on the rocks of reality and you let go of these unrealistic expectations They remind you that “you can’t fix what you didn’t break” Take what unexpected blessings come and enjoy the rando and surprising tender moments with your new family Above all remain flexible and know that yes you've entered into a near impossible situation that will make you feel crazy at times The one piece of advice to help with that which they do not emphasize and I wish they did Get yourself a good attorney When mom messes with the schedule manipulates the kids or demands and money the money spent to mediate these challenges legally will serve you well in the end so that it's not such a losing battle I've developed a balance of being kind but ruthless when it comes to holding limits and boundaries Learn not to take care of the family at your own expense and above all make sure your husband has your back

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Epmoms' Club ― your club ― and we're here to help youThe tips tricks and support you need to survive stepmotherhood ― the perfect gift for every stepmom aroundYou've met the partner of your dreams and have gotten your happily ever after but now you've taken on a new role stepmom And you have no idea what you signed up for Stepmoms' Club How to Be Kindle Or maybe you've been a stepmom for a while now but things are getting you down Who do you turn to for help Where is the stepmothering support group that'll give you the advice you need A book for all the ins and outs of having a blended family Who actually gets how hard being a stepmom can beWe do We are the women who have chosen stepmotherhood and lived to tell the tale This parenting guide holds our solutions to help you Brave the crazy ex demandsOvercome the financial hurdles of a blended familyBe prepared for the legal battles and custody arrangementsHandle disrespectful childrenNourish your relationshipManuever the emotional breakdowns of stepmotherhoodBuild your own stepmom's clubUnderstand why you need your partner to have your backWritten by stepmoms for stepmoms these tips anecdotes and words of advice will help you find success and support within your new familyWe are the Stepmoms' Clu. Someone in a stepparent support group I’m a part of recommended this to me the other day and I am so thankful I took her advice and bought it This book is one of the best and most helpful books I’ve ever read It’s funny fun easy to read but most importantly REAL The author is an actual stepmom not just a psychologist or other “expert” who gives advice albeit with good intentions but never has lived it themselves I can’t tell you how many times I nodded my head in agreement throughout the chapters or said “Amen” or “I know what that’s like” out loud while reading If you are involved with a partner who has kids whether you’re married or not I HIGHLY recommend taking the time to read this

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The Stepmoms' Club How to Be a Stepmom without Losing Your Money Your Mind and Your MarriageB ― your club ― and we're here to help youThe tips tricks and support you need to survive stepmotherhood ― the perfect gift for every stepmom aroundYou've met the partner of your dreams and have gotten your happily ever after but now you've taken on a new role stepmom And you have no idea what you signed up for Or maybe you've been a stepmom for a while now but things are getting you down Who do you turn to for help Where is the stepmothering support group that'll give you the advice you need A book for all the ins and outs of having a blended family Who actually gets how hard being a stepmom can beWe do We are the women who have chosen stepmotherhood and lived to tell the tale This parenting guide holds our solutions to help you Brave the crazy ex demandsOvercome the financial hurdles of a blended familyBe prepared for the legal battles and custody arrangementsHandle disrespectful childrenNourish your relationshipManuever the emotional breakdowns of stepmotherhoodBuild your own stepmom's clubUnderstand why you need your partner to have your backWritten by stepmoms for stepmoms these tips anecdotes and words of advice will help you find success and support within your new familyWe are the Stepmoms' Club ― your club ― and we're here to help yo. Anyone with kids contemplating divorce needs to read this Everyone divorced with kids needs to read this Women shouldn't marry a man with kids unless they read this It was like someone was living in my house reporting all that was going on I did lost my money I did lose my marriage and I damn near lose my mind I had a few meltdowns but after I kicked them out I got my sanity and peace of mind back